• Get to the point.. Things you should never say or do to someone who is depressed and ways to help. 1. Never question their life and reasons why they are depressed. Most people will assume one is being selfish and spoiled but that may not be the case. 2. Never ask “what do you want me to do!?” A depressed person wants conversations, attention and something to eat. 3. Never ask if they need space. 4. never tell them what they are doing wrong during these times. 5. Never make assumptions im regards to them, if you have questions. Ask. 6. Its okay to give some space when they need…